Tips on Safe CBT

From KnaveBB

As with all play of this nature, communication is key! I've got about 14 years of CBT experience under my belt (below my belt? ha ha) and I've seen the good the bad and the ugly. There are really only a few things to avoid altogether, and they primarily deal with the cords that attach the ball to his body:

1. Don't twist the balls, try to keep them facing the direction they want to naturally be facing. Sometimes they kind of want to flip around on you if you're squishing them or walking on them. Your boy will be more aware of this than you are, so make sure he checks in and communicates if they need to be realigned. Simply wobbling the scrotum around will usually accomplish this easily.

2. Avoid yanking on them sharply. You can give them a nice slow tug, and stretching is a fun feeling for everyone involved. There are even ball stretchers and stuff intended to serve this purpose, but sharp yanking is a risk you probably shouldn't take.

3. Avoid putting too much weight directly on a single ball while it has nowhere to go. Balls are pretty durable and can take full-weight trampling and vice pressing and stuff like that most of the time, but pressure should always be applied slowly so, again, your boy can tell you when it's too much. Again, he will have a much better gauge of what's going on, so make sure he communicates with you.

Communication is where his experience is crucial. If he's been doing this for awhile and has tuned into what his body feels like when it's undergoing stress of this nature, then he will be more capable of communicating accurately. If he's also new, then you should both take it nice and slow. Start with all hand stuff, most people have much more physical control over their hands then for example their feet or legs. A great introduction would be to just have him give you access to his balls and let you explore and have fun with your hands. Squeezing, massaging, tickling, poking and slapping are all safe, slow ways for you both to learn what's going on down there.

Really enjoy yourself and pay attention to what his body and face do while you play. Even if he's not 100% verbally communicative, his body will react and give you all sorts of clues as to what is mild play to him and what really hurts.

After you're comfortable with your hands, and you're both feeling adventurous, then of course the next logical step is toys! Crops, clothespins, rope, stretchers, floggers and paddles are all your friends. When tying the cock and balls, really the only safety precaution to be aware of is blood flow, as with all tying. Just keep an eye on 2 factors:

1. How purple is his junk?

2. Are his balls cold to the touch?

If his nuts have gotten cold, untie him and massage the area to get the juices flowing again.

If his scrotum starts to swell up, don't be too alarmed. It's normal for the body to flood the region with fluids to address the activities going on. You only need to really worry about swelling if it's bigger than an orange, or if all the swelling appears on only one side of his scrotum. Also, if his sac is still its typical color and swollen, he's probably fine. If the scrotum has taken on a much darker color and is unevenly swollen, that's not good. But again, don't be afraid to really let him have it with striking. Balls can take it, trust me.

When playing with his cock, be aware of the pressure you're putting on it if he's hard. A soft cock can take a lot of abuse, an erect one is much more fragile. Best to avoid bending it, twisting it or putting a lot of weight on it.

After you've both gotten experience with hands and toys and you want to up the ante, then you can move into trampling, kicking, kneeing, stomping etc. Again, his having experience in those areas will really help you. Again, it's all about communicating, learning limits and starting nice and slow. Getting your aim and controlling the power with which you're striking is the difficult part, and also part of the fun! So long as you start slow and give and get feedback, you'll be fine :) Sorry if this ballooned into an essay. It's a topic that's near and dear to my heart and I've been teaching people hands-on how to do rough CBT and BB play for a long time.

Most importantly, don't worry! Just take it slow and remember to enjoy yourself in the moment!