The 10 Kink Commandments:

Posted with Permission from Oondragur on Fetlife from Iserlohn, North Rhine-Westphalia Germany

* All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual.

* We must always be respectful of our partner’s safe word (red/yellow/green) and their hard limits.

* We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open mind.

* We must always be polite and ask questions.

* We must not touch other people's equipment without permission.

* We must always be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment.

* We must always be mindful of aftercare.

* We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes for solely our own amusement.

* We always protect each others anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world.

* Most importantly, we do not forget to have a good time.